For starters I never thought that I would get married but I met an awesome man that shares the same views and morals as I and we hit it off perfectly. He is my best friend!! We both agree that we do not want children.... Ever!! We are in our thirties and we have a family. Each other. We also have 3 dogs and 5 cats that we consider our children and that is enough for us. We enjoy our time together and maybe some people might think that it's selfish but I don't really give a fuck. I see it as the exact oppisite..... If our broke asses had a kid, that child would grow up the same way that we did. Neither one of us had the best childhood and we both grew up really poor. I would never wish that life upon anyone, especially my child. We made a selfless decision to not ruin another persons life. I like kids, I think they are adorable little creatures. Some people aren't meant to be parents and that is totally alright. Totally!!
I love my friends kids, I think they are great, because they are not mine, I am not responsible for them. Besides I have the patience of a ten year old so that would be a major problem. On that note, I think I will have a beer (or 8) because I can. Then the husband will come home from work and we will have sex somewhere crazy and then cuddle on the couch til bedtime while watching R rated movies with lots of cussing. ;)
It's the life I always wanted, I'm just so lucky that I found my dream guy. Kudos to all the mothers out there that I know. I honestly don't see how you do it. I admire you and say....better you than me!! :)
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